I will not lie that it was smooth , no, it was tough. Very tough, very deep, very disheartening for me. I had so many sleepless nights, nuseau, fever, loneliness and even more . I was all alone through out the pregnàncy. No physical, emotional, social, financial  support from anyone. I had no one to lean on, to cry too besides God. ,  What I didn't know was that he was going through tuff times of no employment, he had been bedridden for months. Life was basically unfortunate for him . I felt unloved, uncared for, I was so lonely. At 7months he contacted me and we met. That's when he narrated to him what was happening in his life.  , all he was going through. We cried together and from that the day forward, we never looked back. Our baby arrived but his father was broke and jobless but we managed through. One time I took our son to met his grannies. They were so excited and we really spent a good holiday of 2weeks with them. It really felt special. Life went on with it

Nothing warms the heart more than seeing two people madly in love with each other and journey towards that lifelong commitment of marriage. God finally gave  us the opportunity to witness our love being honoured and celebrated. We were destined to be together.I can never forget that day.  Our love story was written by God. It was made in heaven .“I said, God manifest yourself”. The truth is I really waited upon the Lord for direction.I had always been anxious about stumbling across a potential husband and even told myself, If I look at him, he will know me because he has seen me in the spiritual realm.For our couple, marriage was on the cards from  that reunion. Don  made his intentions clear after proposing. however, the challenge was the fact that he didn’t have a ring. But, being an African man.. H

An empty street is nolonger in my heart. I had been alone within my heart for years. I suffered pains within my soul. I used to seek comfort the best I could but only to be interrupted by a heartbreak of one sort or another. I am now someone's wife, officially wedded. Wow, dreams definitely come true and well, my feelings are now in a consortium. I always wake up so early in the morning to prepare my husband breakfast. Do u know what this feels? Incognito!  It feels the best thing in the whole world.God is good and this is not just a hyperbol or exaggeration, it's only the truth. Now many months later, I get pregnant. I couldn't believe we were expecting our second born. This was not a situation of hocuspocus. My husband was still the best thing that ever happened to me. We visited antenatal together and sometimes he could help me with house chores. He loved pampering our son. My favourite colours are indigo and purple. Our house had purple curtains and indigo wall paper. I alw